Strengths We’d Love To Borrow From Each Enneagram Type
We all have strengths & weaknesses. I love the idea that we can learn to “borrow” strengths: meaning, we assume we’re capable of growth and change AND we can learn to build on what we’re already good at. We can also acknowledge that each type has some incredible abilities that we can all appreciate!
Below, you'll find a list of the unique qualities and strengths that other types appreciate and would love to "borrow" from each Enneagram type.
If you’d like to see what others of your type have to say about this post, you can find it on Instagram right here, and join the conversation!
Hey Ones,
We’d love to borrow your…
Dedication to making value-aligned decisions
Self-discipline
Consistency and steadiness
Ability to execute your ideas
Commitment to goodness, excellence, and fairness
Desire to make life better for everyone
Intentionality
Constant pursuit of clarity and balance
Hey Twos,
We'd love to borrow your…
Wholehearted and passionate pursuit of what matters to you
Compassion & love
Ability to sense what to do next
Ability to make friends anywhere you go
Willingness to fully show up for yourself & others
Hospitable nature
Authentic caring spirit
Ability to bring people together for a common goal
Hey Threes,
We'd love to borrow your…
“Go-getter” attitude
Ease around different types of people
Ability to communicate with others in a way that resonates
Consistent effort toward making a positive impact
Willingness to put yourself out there & try new things
Ambition
Determination
Desire to help others reach their potential
Hey Fours,
We'd love to borrow your…
Insightful & introspective nature
Emotional awareness
Ability to express yourself & your ideas
Commitment to being the truest version of yourself
Creativity in finding your own way to process things
Outside the box thinking
Willingness to have hard conversations
Ability to put your own unique touch in everything you do
Hey Fives,
We'd love to borrow your…
Wry, subtle wit
Self-discipline & focus
Ability to make space between your thoughts & feelings
Insatiable curiosity
Independence
Keen awareness of your energy
Way of processing internally before speaking
Commitment to yourself & your boundaries
Hey Sixes,
We'd love to borrow your…
Commitment to your purpose
Responsibility
Loyalty
Way of reliably asking excellent questions
Ability to speak up & point out what is being overlooked
Perseverance
Courage to show up & do your best
Ability to genuinely connect with others
Hey Sevens,
We'd love to borrow your…
Sense of adventure, curiosity, & spontaneity
Multifaceted nature
Eternal optimism
Self-belief
Willingness to change what’s not working for you
Quick-mindedness
Ability to connect with people instantly
Creativity
Hey Eights,
We'd love to borrow your…
Confidence
Decisiveness
Boundary setting skills (& your commitment to encouraging this in others)
Willingness to lean into discomfort
Ability to take action, even when they only know the first few steps
Courage & self-trust
Willingness to be the dissenting voice when it matters
Tenacity
Hey Nines,
We’d love to borrow your…
Balance
Sense of calm & serenity
Ability to consider all perspectives thoroughly
Care and kindness
Patient
Willingness to process everything before moving forward
Ability to make everybody feel included & important
Just-right blend of gentle & principled
What about you? What strengths would you like to borrow from each type? Join the conversation here and tell me in the comments!
Want to explore more about your type and how to apply the Enneagram to your everyday life? My book, Enneagram in Real Life, provides you with a step-by-step guide to use the Enneagram as a practical tool for self-discovery, self-awareness, curiosity, and relational wholeness.
