Potential Conflict Triggers by Enneagram Type
In this series, we’re highlighting a couple of triggers for each Enneagram type.
The Enneagram is so helpful in that we can use it to become clear on our own communication style and also provide us with the language we need to describe our style to others.
Through the Enneagram, we can become aware of common triggers and learn to ease tension through building mutual understanding. If you want to find new ways to step out of communication ruts in your relationships, check out my book, Enneagram in Real Life.
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Type Nine
Potential Conflict Triggers:
Dismissing them or assuming they don't care what happens
Believing that they're only easygoing & there's nothing more to them
Type Eight
Potential Conflict Triggers:
Anything that feels like an attempt to control them
Negatively impacting them due to irresponsibility or incompetence
Type Seven
Potential Conflict Triggers:
Black-and-white or overly pragmatic thinking
Placing arbitrary limitations upon them
Type Six
Potential Conflict Triggers:
Jumping into "fix it" mode without letting them share or process their concerns
Betrayal or breaking their confidence
Type Five
Potential Conflict Triggers:
Pushing them to engage or respond when they're not ready
Others being unwilling to think critically
Type Four
Potential Conflict Triggers:
Lack of authenticity from others
People refusing to truly "go there" emotionally
Type Three
Potential Conflict Triggers:
Constant challenging, questioning, or slowing them down
Accusing them of being fake or shallow
Type Two
Potential Conflict Triggers:
Taking advantage of their generosity
Lacking care or concern for others
Type One
Potential Conflict Triggers:
Being accused of lacking integrity, honesty, or transparency
Others acting unethically for personal gain
Want to turn these conflict triggers into opportunities for growth and better communication? My book, Enneagram in Real Life, is packed with tangible growth practices, frameworks, and insight into how we can better communicate with others.
